Since we men do not possess the power of mind control, we will always be at a disadvantage when it comes to determining what a woman is thinking. Really, mind control is the only tool that would give us one iota of a chance in this venture. The fact is that women’s minds are far more complicated than ours, so any reaches for telepathy are just part of an elaborate, hopeless guessing game. What does she really think of you? You’ll never know, and here are a few things to help you deal with that fact.
Classified ads are a game
From an outsider’s perspective, classified ads would seem like some sort of mechanical process that one goes through, with definitive black or white results. However, anyone who has spent any amount of time with online hookup platforms will know that classified ads are a game, and only the men who play the game optimally will emerge with verified results. Just like offline dating, online dating must be carried out with charm and class, and you must truly intrigue the woman you’re interacting with if you plan on having a chance at sleeping with her. If you play the classified ads game lazily, without caring too much about improvement, you will be continually frustrated with the lackluster results you will get. However, if you are mindful regarding your progress in this online game, you will eventually keep getting better and better, and you’ll have way too many first dates set up to count.
Forget what you know about female psychology
As men, we all need to quickly forget everything we know about female psychology, even as we learn new things about it. Although some of what we hear and think we know might be right, it just does not change the fact that women are so fundamentally different from us that we will never truly understand what their psychology is really like. The best we can do is guess, try out new things, and stick to what works. For years and years throughout history, this sort of formula has produced tangible results (evidenced by the fact that billions of us are alive today), but it has come with traditional odds stacked quite high against the men. While this has not changed in recent years, the odds are starting to balance more with the advent of online dating. While the internet has still not granted us any more definitive insight into the female psyche, we at least can try out some theories on virtual hookup platforms, and follow proven formulas that actually work.
What does she think?
You might as well ask yourself literally any other question. “What does she think?” is a really useless way to spend your questioning time. She won’t tell you, even if you ask her directly, and you’ll probably never guess it either. A woman’s mind can stray to regions far beyond what a man knows of, and so we have no place in trying to guess our way toward where a woman’s mind goes. In the end, we just need to proceed with the dating process by assuming everything she says is at least remotely based in reality, and that will lead us to the best possible results.
Online chat does not provide clarity
If we thought that the internet would provide a bit more clarity when it comes to speaking with women, we were very wrong indeed. Women have been notoriously enigmatic in human-to-human interactions throughout history, and this does not change when it comes to online interactions. In fact, one could argue that online chat provides even less conversational clarity than offline conversations. With online chat, a woman can take her time to formulate precisely concocted messages to send to you, and you have no choice but to assume that message was genuine. Of course, you also have the option of doing the same thing. That’s where the dating game comes into play, and that’s why you need to play it right in order to have a chance at winning.
Is she thinking about having sex?
This is another one that you won’t have the clear answer to, but don’t fret. If you’re meeting her on an online hookup platform, chances are that she will be thinking about having sex eventually, at one point during your conversation. That’s definitely one thing that men have in their favour when it comes to online dating. In the end, it’s important not to think too long about what she’s thinking about, and definitely don’t spend too much time worrying about whether or not she’s thinking about having sex. Everything will happen organically, so you just need to go with the flow of your interaction with your new friend.